Under the Cold Moon


Rituals for Communication, Love, and Home

Cold Moon · Open Moon · Big Winter Moon


December arrives the way winter always does—quietly, almost reverently—draped in silver air and longer nights. Breath becomes visible. Time stretches. And above it all, the Full Moon rises, pale and unhurried, illuminating the stillness rather than interrupting it.


This is the Cold Moon: a name given for truth. In Old English and Anglo-Saxon traditions, it was known as the Moon Before Yule—a pause before celebration, a breath held between endings and beginnings. Elsewhere, it is called the Big Winter Moon or the Open Moon, suggesting not closure, but invitation. An opening inward. A return. This moon asks us to come home—to our bodies, our people, our truths.


The Language of the Season

Every season speaks its own dialect. Winter’s is spare, symbolic, and precise. Under the December Full Moon, beauty does not shout; it whispers through form, texture, and meaning. Flowers and stones become quiet translators between the natural world and our interior lives.




F L O W E R S: Narcissus, Poinsettia, Holly


Flowers, chosen now, mirror resilience and reflection.

Narcissus blooms represent rebirth—a lesson of self-regard without vanity. Poinsettia, bold against the cold, carries devotion and warmth into darkened rooms. Holly, ancient and sharp, reminds us that protection and beauty often coexist.

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S T O N E S: Blue zircon, Turquoise, Tanzanite

Stones offer their own counsel.

Blue Zircon catches light like a held breath, encouraging clarity and calm communication. Turquoise—long associated with healing and ancestral wisdom—anchors the emotional body, steadying us when the season asks for introspection. These are seasonal allies.



A Scent for the Cold Moon

Scent is memory’s most faithful companion. Under this moon, fragrance becomes ritual—an invisible architecture that turns space into sanctuary. The Cold Moon oil blend is deep, resinous, and intimate. Frankincense grounds and sanctifies, slowing the breath. Myrrh calls in ancestry and protection, its bitterness meditative rather than harsh. Patchouli roots the body, reminding us that sensuality does not disappear in winter—it simply deepens. Geranium lifts the heart, balancing emotion with softness.


Blended into jojoba or sweet almond oil, the scent should feel like stepping into an old cathedral wrapped in velvet—ancient, warm, and quietly reverent. Warm it between your palms. Apply to pulse points, the soles of the feet, or directly over the heart. Let it mark the threshold between the outer world and your inner one. Synchronize to pull in your desires, Intentionally.






Astrological Mood: A Moon That Speaks and Feels

December carries two emotional climates, and the Full Moon reflects both. It is a month split between conversation and caretaking, expression and emotion. As the Sun moves through Sagittarius, the Full Moon forms in Gemini—a lunation ruled by language, curiosity, and connection. Words want to move. Stories want to be told. Later, when the Sun enters Capricorn, the Full Moon rises in Cancer. The energy turns inward. Home, memory, and emotional truth take precedence. Feelings swell like tides. Each phase offers its own ceremony. Each asks something different of us.




Ceremony I: The Full Moon in Gemini

Sun in Sagittarius · For Better Communication

This is a moon that hums. Gemini energy crackles with ideas, messages, and unfinished conversations. Under its light, clarity arrives not through silence, but through expression. Begin simply. Cleanse a new pen—through incense smoke or moonlight. Sit quietly and set an intention for honest, graceful communication. Then write. A letter you may never send. A journal entry you didn’t know you needed. Make the call you’ve been postponing. This moon favors reconnection and repair. It invites you to name what has lingered unspoken. Here, language is not decoration—it is liberation.




Ceremony II: The Full Moon in Cancer

Sun in Capricorn · Rituals for Love

Where Gemini speaks, Cancer feels. This Full Moon governs the home, the womb, the emotional body. Sensitivity sharpens. Intuition heightens. You may notice yourself absorbing the moods of others—so grounding and protection become essential. Cleanse your space with sound, smoke, or salt. Sit with a candle and decide where love is needed most: self-love, romantic love, family healing, or ancestral repair. Anoint your heart with the prepared oil and speak your intention aloud. Love rituals under a Cancer Full Moon are powerful, but they cannot be rushed. Emotional honesty is the offering. Let feeling lead. Let tenderness be enough.


The Cold Moon’s Gift

The December Full Moon does not demand action. It does not ask you to hustle or transform overnight. Instead, it invites presence. To slow down. To tend to your inner household. To warm what has grown cold. Through words or love, scent or silence, this moon reminds us that winter is not empty. It is full. Full of memory. Full of meaning. Full of quiet magic.


Song Inspiration: Almeda by Solange

Sources: inspired by traditional lunar naming and seasonal wisdom, including The Farmer’s Almanac.


Shine Bright,
Your friendly esoteric wellness CEO 🍓💼✨




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